BFF/Ex-Boyfriend drama! Help!!?

Question by VS_5296: BFF/Ex-Boyfriend drama! Help!!?
Okay yahooers, its me again with more teen drama! Great isn’t it? HAHAHAHA….no. So I need some help. around 6 weeks ago I broke up with the guy who I had been with for almost 8 months, (things didn’t feel right and I wasn’t in it and there was no communication, at all…) And I have one of those friends that sees a man and she thinks she owns him solely because he is cute, and he has flirted with her. And 2 weeks b4 my breakup at a school field trip to a basket ball game, she was on the same bus as my bf, so i guess they talked which is ok, but walking up the stairs (i was already seated) she is holding onto him very close and which made me verrrry angry, (that was the first time i was really angry about something like that) and so She apologized but she still hugged him sometimes. And when that happened, because i was angry at him, she got angry at me, which shows that she didnt even see how wrong it was for that to happen. Whats worst is they were sitting together and when I went up there to see if i could sit with him she glared at me and told me she wouldnt move, and he. said. NOTHING. so i stormed off. When i talked to other people they told me she was just an intimidating person, so right then I wanted to put a stop to us hanging out. It didnt work out :/ So now my Ex bothers me, frequently, i just want him to buzz off. But i really want her to leave me alone. she gave me an xmas present and it was all USED a old pair of jeans, a maternity shirt (HUGE and patterned), and a greeen walmart shirt that said peace on it it was also HUGE. Im model skinny, she is bigger than me. She told me not to open it b4 xmas, but i opened it. And I want to start the new year right. So her thinkin she is my BFFL isn’t gonna work. She can be there and act caring, but inside she isn’t sincere. I need a way to tell her that I just cant be her friend anymore, oh and for the cherry on top! My Ex sooooo likes her and today she told me she likes him, but she is going with her brother in law (creepy right?) and she begged her bf to let her dance with guys at the dance, he finally caved. I think they might start going out which concludes that she isn’t a worthy friend. I just need to know the best escape route. Im also an outcast so i dont have many friends, so losing her kinda means losing the rest of my friends (for the most part) so i just have to find out a way to get her away from me and perhaps a method of gaining friends that arent psycos would be nice.

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Answer by stephanie_6234
Well miss drama….I happen to see this differently. First of all, YOU broke up with the guy, therefore, you cant dictate who he sees or talks to after the breakup, period. Your girlfriend didnt try to come between you two, she waited until the two of you realized that you couldnt be together before she started making it known to him that she wanted him…thats fair game. You really have no right or reason to be mad at either of them for moving on with their lives. You cant control that and you cant control other people, so you really need to get over yourself. If I were this girl you wouldnt have to tell me to leave you alone, your attitude would have made me leave you alone…she owes you nothing, and YOU are the one that isnt being a good friend, because you havent realized that just because YOU and he couldnt get along well enough for a relationship doesnt mean that SHE and he wont and they deserve a chance to try. so what? You think that because she was your girlfriend then all guys that you mess with are off limits? GET REAL! You dont own anyone, grow up if you are going to be involved with people, because noone owes you anything. Guys come a dime a dozen, friends…true friends are scarce….for you to give up your girlfriend over a guy that doesnt want you, makes YOU the bad one here…not her. So take your jealousy somewhere else and leave these two alone.

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